Thursday, July 3, 2014

To all the male and female chauvinists !

Suppose you are walking in a park and you find someone staring at a women's chest. What would be your reaction ? Get it straight. Perverts, you will say. It's really wrong, isn't it ? But this remark does invite a lot of questions. Now, ask yourself the same question, again. Ask your friends. And you might find the entire world on the other side, at least the male chauvinists will meet you there.

Lets have counterpart of the same story. But this time, the tables have been turned upside down and you caught a girl staring at a man. The level of admiration matches perfectly to the previous version of the tale. What now ? Wait, you might fail to judge its inappropriacy this time. You will be having second thoughts about everything, let alone be that girl. Align your thoughts, friends.

 
Watch out this amazing video ! This clip may alter your thoughts, may be just for the moment. Let's try to find out if it's totally inappropriate. I understand there is a limit to anything and everything.



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Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Questioning the Big Question: Power, Pelf and Politics

I read this commercial somewhere a few days back, which floored me to stomach aches. It said, “Two things you should never discuss in public, i.e. Politics and Rashes”. Yet, I am here raising the same questions for which I have been forbidden, repetitively if I must say.

Polls, Polls and Polls. This is the only debated flavour on the table today. And adding an ice cube to it, is the media and its extremely ambigious involvement to this warfare. Today, the power of media has reached verticals and henceforth they run moreover parallel to almost everything. Before elections, there are pre-poll surveys, opinion polls, ennumerous stings and each channel on the planet comes out with its own set of estimated corollaries. Pardon me for using the phrase ‘warfare’ but elections are moreover the same on the runway of power and pelf. The only difference is, it is just bound by democratic rules, thus making it less miserable, not resulting in a violent blood battle. Otherwise the overall strategy & planning, execution, funding, cut throat deceits and diplomatic lies, continue to be analogous to any warfare. Correct me, if I am wrong. We have been here since decades, endorsing the same scenarios with hopes and faiths in the improvement of the society and mankind. Apparently, no good deed has gone unpunished.

The aura of general elections is evident. We can see banners and posters everywhere, the election-special-slogans-and-enchants, the promising leaders and their undying promises, deceiving the same golden eggs which will be served right after the elections. Suddenly, almost every political party or its members will go to being the humblest humans possibly existent. Negative publicities & blames are deliberately framed onto the rivals, the incompetency of the ruling government being focused most. Every issue on the facing calendar is brought down to the table, just to win some scores over others. Eventually, every govt makes some bad decisions or there are under baked or over baked cakes. But before making allegations, they forget and fail to understand that “Two Cynics never make an Optimist”. Elections invariably do bring the true colors of human nature.

The inability to seek something good in your neighbour’s dog walker, weakens and suppresses our enthusiasm, positivity and thoughts, thereby restraining us, which could have actually led us to go places. We lack compassion. We need to learn to acknowledge and appreciate others before tabling our agendas. The concept of me and just my opinions will take us nowhere but in our own comfortable wells which we conceive as the entire world. We focus more on what-is-wrong-with-the-next-guy, or the next party or organisation and less on our own performances and deeds, hardly caring enough to categorize them as good or bad.

I believe the national agenda is far left behind. Even we are lost. We are pre-occupied with who will win the general elections, or what will happen from amethi, or Rajiv Gandhi’s killers. The theme of the story is mislaid. Someone has to win anyway. We expect that the upcoming elected government will first complete the work backlogged in the previous regime, rather than knocking it off to a back seat or abandoning it. But the bigger question is, Will our expections be met or just piled up again on the mountain high column of files ? Who will win the political battle does not concerns me much. People have and will celebrate victories and defeats, but the thought of us failing as a nation will dishearten our handicapped souls(for which we are only solely responsible), again. The urge of the indian psyche to rule needs to be ridiculed, obsession of the chair must be stopped.


For what its worth, let’s be mature in making decisions this time, to form our own government, rather than throwing stones at each other and playing the blame game afterwards. Let’s try to abolish the system of casting votes on grounds of caste, colour or creed and let’s try to be more focused on the developments and efforts to make this world a better place to live in. Let us be aware of the facts and figures, participate more proactively in the foundation of a true democracy. Let not any specific issue, occured at some specific time in the past lying deep down in the dead graves, hamper our decisive capabilities for our future and deviate us from our vision of a remarkable nation.

Friday, February 14, 2014

Four of us to the Land of Kings.

Endowed with natural beauty and history, Rajasthan is one of the most exotic destinations, which attracts tourists from all over the globe. It is also sobriqueted as Land of the Kings. Mainly, it is visited on accounts of its culture, art, historical palaces and forts. Anxious to uncover these treasures of ancient history, we four of us decided to explore a few locations in a very limited time frame. We planned for a 4 day trip to Udaipur-Jaipur-MountAbu, while our hectic office schedules, empty workstations and pending backlogs took a back seat.


The escapade began on 6th of february, 2014. Chandan, Sunny and Vishal hopped a train from delhi while I traversed from pune, to the city of lakes. Yes, Udaipur topped our list to begin with. Ironically, Vishal had missed the train (at least to what I had been made to believe after being falling in the trio trap). By the time I reached there, accomodations had been arranged. It was a beautiful 4 bedded room with plush interiors, supported by a 40 inch LED screen. A 4 bedded room for just three of us, I was perplexed. Soon before I could probe any more, there was a knock on the door (to which I was forced to answer), and all the mysteries were unearthed in moments. I was totally breathtaken and we all laughed in unison. Within minutes, food was served and we gulped like the last nibbles were left for us on the planet. Soon, we were ready to dig into the city. We visited City Palace, Lake Pichhola, Dudhtalai and a few more. We also extended to karni mata mandir, which was located at a cliff, connected by ropeway. It was sunset time and almost the entire city was visible to us from there. It was just beautiful.

Breathtaking Marble Carvings, Dilwara Jain Temples,
Mount Abu.
Next day was reserved for Mount Abu. It’s a small and beautiful hill station, a 200 km drive from Udaipur. We visited the most famous Dilwara Jain Temples there. It is one of the finest temples, known for its extraordinary and exemplary marble (precisely ‘sangmarmar’) stone carvings, built in 11th century AD. The temple interiors displayed an inconceivable work of human craftsmanship, delivering delicacies at its best. Nakki Lake and Sunset Point were also popular locations which we hovered through. A 1 hr boating ride in nakki lake left us refreshed for the entire day. Sunset point, one of the popular locations, drew our attention towards the serene way of enjoying the nature. After sunset, we headed for our ultimate location, the pink city. We boarded a city bus, which was as good as dismantling into bits and pieces any minute, gave us an unforgettable journey which will remain confined to ourselves, reasons known to just the four of us.


Early morning, in midst of the cold waves, we arrived at the capital, Jaipur. As we had been invited, we had no option but to park ourselves at Sunny's uncle's place. We freshened ourselves and aunty made us a delicious north indian cuisine. We started our 
Raj Mandir Cinemas, Jaipur.
sightseeing with the forts. Firstly Nahargarh and Jaigarh Forts, and then Amber (pronounced as 'Amer') fort. Amber fort is one of the most ancient and famous forts, as the city gets its name from the ruler of Amber, Maharaja Sawai Jai Singh. Hawa Mahal, Pink City and Jal Mahal were the other attractions which we crossed by. We completed our tour by watching the movie 'hasee to phasee' in the vividly popular ‘Raj Mandir’ Cinemas. Forgive me if I am wrong but even today, this theatre stands a class apart, second to none.


As soon as the dusk covered the city, we left for the national capital, back to our melancholy chambers and logical lives. While everyone resided there, I continued for pune. With a flick of seconds, three days had passed. It was truly an everlasting experience. Thank you guys for making this possible.

Chandan, Sunny (aka ... & .... 'Winners) - You guys totally won in giving me the surprise.  

Vishal (aka Bholu) - Thank you for being with us (I have told you too many times already - If you know what I mean :P ). 
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Sunny, Chandan, Myself and Vishal - At Udaipur.

Expecting all of you to plan something somewhere, or lets say, anything anywhere, soon. Till then, Keep Rocking !


“India is not, as people keep calling it, an underdeveloped country, but rather, in the context of its history and cultural heritage, a highly developed one in an advanced state of decay.”    -Anonymous.